Being in right relation with sisters

We unite, being self-radically responsible.

No longer looking outside of ourselves but instead, listening from within to notice what needs to be done. We create because our soul requires us to do so. We call in financial abundance because it supports our vision. We find guidance from sisters who are healers, mentors, teachers because we trust in their potent gifts.

We vow to be sovereign through sacred reciprocity - a relationship that is mutually honoring one another with highest respect.

This was what I saw in the women who participated in the Sacred Circle LIVE training in Melbourne last week.

They were powerful women who made it work. Found a place to stay, carved out time in their full schedule, found the financial resources to attend, opened their hearts, supported each other, and celebrated their collective vision with their individual flare.

It was an honor to return to Australia to close one circle loop and activate the next.

This new class of initiates are women who I envision standing with me and shifting an old story. You see, here, with clean precision, energetically crystallizing is a feminine belief system that is being encoded into our structure.  

This shift is based upon the deep knowing that we can love one another, be sisters, laugh and giggle and have coffee together, honor each other, and equally pay for each other’s gifts in the world. These women do not need me to save them nor do everything for them to see their vision come to life. I do not need to negotiate with them for they trust they can manifest the new world when they are flowing with grace.

This is where I stumbled, failed, was challenged by when I first began this journey.

Oh how I failed. I failed to see women as strong, powerful creatrixes who could manifest experiences of their choosing. They do not need saving. They must choose. They must choose to be in their sovereignty and reign in their queendom.

When I first began this journey into sisterhood, I thought being a sister meant doing everything for them.

Sharing their gifts with the world, creating space so they did not have to pay for my services, carving out scholarships, coaching them 1:1 as a sister and calling it a tea date. Much of the energetics of this was due to a sense of overly committing, desiring to rescue, co-dependency, fear of being rejected as a sister, not valuing my worth, and endless learnings around boundaries.

What did I learn from this?

I am here to shift the paradigm.

Shift the old view that if we are sisters, then we must be colleagues, and therefore we could not be each other’s mentors/guides/teachers for it shifts the power dynamic and places a hierarchy on our relationship. My sister is no less than I and has deep wisdom and therefore, there is no way her ego will allow her to pay for my services.

Instead we play a loving dance with the elephant in the room.

Emails are sent asking who my mentors are and who they should work with. Emails asking about my services but never taking that step. It is one thing to feel into it and know that this isn’t the aligned path while another to create a reality that is illusion causing us to resist and walk away from what is in alignment with our cause.

Have you witnessed this in your own life?

Sisters coming to you for guidance but feeling the messy energetic exchange. Sisters desiring to be saved and clearly not by you and fully by you. Money begins to feel heavy and negotiating begins. Stories are told, conversations about trading begins, questions are asked with a blurry line of what is loving sister guidance and what is asking for your service to be free.

Last month I sat in ceremony watching how this energetically plays out all the time.

Women perceive other women to be sitting on high council excluding them.

What if we envisioned a council where there was a seat at the table for every single woman?

A place where it was up to you to take your seat of your throne amongst the women that you respect. From this place we acknowledge each other, pay for each other’s services, honor each other's teachings by being a part of their experiences and then sharing with the world based on personal experiences.

Energetically, can you feel your womb space expand rather than contract? Can you feel how I give your power back and see you for the potent priestess that you are.

No longer do I save you from you. No longer do I believe that you cannot afford life, cannot create greatness, cannot make choices for your highest light, cannot experience what you desire to experience, cannot create what you desire to create.

For the only person now to get in your way is yourself.  Get out of the way sister and thrive!

I am here sitting in council waiting for you. I am here to be your sister, your friend, your soul family, your mentor, your student, your guide, your devotee, a member of the Universal court.

Sora No

Sora Surya No is a transformative business coach, intuitive mentor, international retreat leader, inspirational speaker, fire igniter, heart whisperer, nomadic entrepreneur, and world traveler.

 

As the creator of the Intuitive Soul and Business Mapping™ and holder of worldwide Radiant Women's Circle Intensives, Sora blends formal education and real world experience with mystical transformation, ritualistic practices, inner reflection, and deepening community to help passionate entrepreneurs integrate feminine energy into their business so they can lead a life that is wild, free, and calm.


Sora’s unique approach brings her clients a resounding level of clarity around how they are being called upon to serve in the world, who their ideal customers are and how to reach them, ways to build a worldwide community that they can leverage for support and partnership, uncovering the fears stalling success and developing rituals for how to work through those blocks, practices for healing the whole self and not just their business, learning how they can use magic everyday for what they would like to create for themselves, how to ask and receive exactly what the Heart desires, and how to run a successful business from anywhere in the world.